What Its Going To Take For You To Get Your Girlfriend Back

Your desire to get back together with your ex girlfriend or your wife might not be enough to win her over. I know that this might come as a shock to you but just because you are devoted, caring, loving, kind, considerate and patient, this doesn't mean that she will eventually decide to give you a second chance. Waiting until the end of time might just leave you standing there watching as she goes off and marries some other guy, much to your own dismay. Many guys have been wounded and had their hearts broken for all time as they sat and waited for the phone to ring or for their ex to come to her senses. Being patient or waiting for her to come back to you just isn't going to cut it when it comes to a woman's emotions. That conventional wisdom that says if it was meant to be then she'll come back to you isn't going to bring her running back to you any time soon if at all. You may have already thought that this advice of waiting and seeing is pretty stupid. After all, if she never hears from you or if there's no interaction between the two of you then how is she to know that you even think about her. Logic should tell us that if she doesn't hear from you then she is going to think that you have moved on and forgotten about her. No matter what a woman says or does, often in the back of her mind she is hoping that you will fight for her. She hopes in her heart that you are miserable without her and that some day you will sweep her off her feet again and make her fall in love with you. All of those excuses that she used to explain why she was breaking up with you or why things just wouldn't work out are simply tests to see if you will fight for her. If you simply give up and move on then she will tell herself that you really didn't love her or that you really didn't care about your relationship as much as she thought you did. She wants to be the one and only. She wants to be the only woman you think about. No matter what is going on, she secretly hopes and prays that you will one day make her feel those feelings that she longs to feel again. I'm talking about the same feelings that you made her feel when she first fell in love with you. You see, a woman needs to feel these special romantic feelings in order for her to say that she truly loves a man. Often, it's when these feelings fade or when you stop doing those things that made her feel these feelings when she will begin to focus on the negative things about you. Sometimes these feelings fade or a woman will even fall out of love with you when you begin to fall deeply in love with her. You change and start treating her better or you put her up on a pedastal and the dynamic of the relationship changes. You become like one of her girlfriends rather than her boyfriend or her husband and she loses that loving feeling somehow. It's your job if you are intent on getting your ex girlfriend or your wife back to understand her and what she needs to fall in love with you again. Forget about the problems in the relationship or what you did wrong. Without her feeling these feelings you have no chance of winning her back. On the other hand, if you are able to make her feel the emotions that she secretly craves then it doesn't matter how awful the breakup was or what she says caused her to leave you. When a woman truly falls in love with a man it doesn't matter what happened in the past. All old wounds are healed and all she will know is that she needs to be near you every minute of the day. So, forget about traditional relationship advice and spend some time understanding the female psyche. Understanding what a woman needs emotionally to fall in love is the key to your success. Being able to push her emotional hot buttons will not only help you turn the tide and get her back but it will enable you to see changes in your relationship extremely rapidly. Find out more on Read More